Thursday, December 15, 2011

In the Swim of Things…


The above title opens up a plethora of directions which could be pursued … If only I knew which to follow!!!

This morning my ESL class students were, as usual, late for the show. In a regular school this would not be well received. However here, when each participant eventually “drags” in, their tired early morning faces tell the story. For the most part they work jobs which keep them up until late (or, better yet, early) hours and their coming in to the early a.m. class is an effort. And it is an effort which makes me work a little bit harder to give them the basic understanding they need in order to get by in their day to day struggles.

After class, a little bit of talk time was spent with the owner-teacher; we have become good friends over time and, actually, at present it is just “she and I” facing the ESL world, since the third teacher is on vacation. She is taking on an added risk: moving the school to a different locale come January. Where we are now there is little, if any, walk in traffic (second floor in a corporate office structure) these walk-ins create a flow of potential customers which is imperative for the long term growth and survival of the school. We have discussed this over some time now, for a decision had to be reached by mid December due to office contractual issues.

I am sort of a “free lance-no charge” advisor and bouncing wall to her thoughts; she, a single mother to a 4 yr old girl and this is already a heavy responsibility ... she also knows and accepts there are risks to be taken if her lot is to be improved. So here comes the new school with the attending investment, in a spanking new strip mall at street level and in a very heavily trafficked area of town with a high Hispanic percentile, exactly the target market the school needs to tap in order to grow. We worked on some ideas for the opening week, including a press cocktail to be held, as well as some promotions and class “giveaways”. After I assured her that my help could be counted on, we said goodbye and each went his/her way. She to teach a class, I to a meeting.

On my way to that meeting, a call came in through Skype, on my phone. It is amazing how these integrated services work to help in the daily management of business. It wasn’t so long ago (well, to us older geese!!) that if you were away from the house or office phone, you were out of touch. Anyway, this call came from my associate overseas and we discussed several issues on which we are currently working. After 25 minutes on the phone (no cost, thanks to Skype) we parted ways not without before setting up a follow up schedule for the rest of the day and for tomorrow, since we are still hoping to get at least one item completed before Christmas.

By this time, my car had found itself parked by the door of my next destination.  Not quite sure how it was it managed to get there… no, not really… The office of a potential on-and-off associate. This lady created and maintains a local foundation geared to the needs of a specific group of foreign nationals. In this case, services are for and not limited to,  Ecuadorians. These folk are for the most part from very humble origins, often lost in wanderings within the bureaucracy found in most areas which have to be faced in most facets of our daily undertakings. Add to this the lack language management and their problems multiply.

Her primary business is (or was), I think, a ticket agency. Now, you can just as easily buy a ticket, send a package or have your eyes checked, your feet massaged or your computer upgraded. Of course, also insurance and other assorted sundries. This office is a true paean to survival in rough times. One of the very real and sad issues facing these less financially able communities is the lack of funds to pay for a funeral and/or for a repatriation of the body of the deceased.

We had a one hour meeting, delineating a new service to be offered to her “constituents” and all other members of the foundation: A complete burial or “processing and shipping” service for a very inexpensive amount, to be covered by a small, low cost life insurance policy. A simple idea, right? When a person gets to know those who actually live within this needy segment of society, many ugly truths related to the sub-worlds that do exist come to the surface. These people are, for the most part, good and hard working folk who do not have the formal education to aspire to the better jobs and often, when they do have the education, cannot  exercise their learned professions because their documents are not in full order…

They live in a mid grayish world, never really able to see the full daylight, only a bit of the morning light of hope. Their goal is to try very hard to make a better life for their children, perhaps so that generation and the following ones have a chance to live in a lighter, more open world. Then, for those who do not make it, there is the family pain of not being able to pay for a funeral here, or to have the embalmed body sent back to their country of origin, so they can be put at rest with their ancestors, a very personal and important issue within our culture. Often, the proverbial hat is passed around their neighbors and members of their church, with the hope that there will be enough money to do one or the other. When this insurance packet is put into effect, those who take part in it will be able to rest in peace, at an abode of their choice.  And so will their surviving family.

Now, as I sit here, there are several documents which need to be completed for my overseas associate, as well as for my local associate to be.  Then on to the late night ESL class, for those who work from early in the morning until late in the afternoon... 

When this post entry started to unravel from the title chosen, it seemed like a potential waste of time, but for some reason it just kept coming. Now, as it stares back at me the message it gives me is that we are all, as individuals, involved at many levels and with more people than we could possibly imagine … in every thing we do. What each one of us commits to or fails to do, will affect not only our own lives, but the lives of many others … some of whom we do not even know.  So, I guess, if we are going to do something, let’s do it right the first time, for it will impact someone else down the road; you will help that someone and will also understand that the job to be done, was well done. 

This will bring to your heart and mind a true feeling of accomplishment, even when no one else knows about it…

Be Well … Be Back!!!

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