Wednesday, April 10, 2019

ARE WE IN MISSISSIPI???


A trip to New Orleans (a favorite city) that comes to mind as a “special occasion” happened sometime in the summer of 1999. I don’t remember the exact month; some of these events have become blurred images in my memory. Yet, I remember the details of the trip, as it became -several years later, and when looking back- an image of much of what was wrong with what became my interests for a good chunk of the years that came immediately after.

This happened during my tenure with -let’s call him- “Ralphie from the Bronx” the guy mentioned elsewhere in these ramblings and who shared an office in lower Manhattan with a friend who dealt in wholesale women underwear. Ralphie had a bank document which had come into his hands and after some unsuccessful attempts to unload it or place it, he was told there was this visiting “Financial Guru” who was sure to be able to help him with this. The catch? He would be staying at an out of the way Mississippi plantation, and only for a week or so. Of course, he would see Ralphie by invitation and appointment only.

The invitation came (No surprises. After playing hard to get, they all came through eventually) but the only catch is that we were in NYC and they in New Orleans. This time, since he was also coming, we (He, my wife and I) flew down to NO where we were booked at the Hilton. I have to say Ralphie was terrified of flying and of going outside of NYC, where he was born, grew up and lived. After a couple of days of waiting around and spending his money, we finally received a mysterious late-night phone call to let us know that a dark green van would pick us up next morning at 6am sharp in order to take us to our meeting with “Mr. Guru”. No questions were asked, and no answers given. Just be ready at 6am.

The van came at the appointed hour, with two bodyguard-like guys in it. My wife stayed back at the hotel, where we’d be back at the end of the day. With some apprehension, since we really didn’t know where this “Guru” was, we got into the van and proceeded to be driven north. Once on the highway, the not very stable box-on-wheels was moving at speeds well north of 90mph creating “some” concern on our part. We drove into what seemed to be the wilderness; no signs of life, just forests and solitary roads. Eventually, after about three hours of rolling north into Mississippi, we turned into a small, well maintained road, which turned out to be a private driveway into a very large estate, consisting of a main house and two smaller houses, all bordering a good size lake.

Following an “appropriate” wait during which we were free to walk around the immediate area of the house, which included a long pier into the lake with a covered look-out point at the end, we were finally brought into the audience with “The Great One”. After some back and forth, it turned out he was just another intermediary (albeit with more money than Ralphie, or I, had) and that the grand looking southern manor had been rented for the occasion. Another dud. No agreements were reached, and we were sent unceremoniously back to NO, where my wife and I stayed an extra 2 days, at Ralphie’s expense.

Little did I know it then, but the events of this day were signaling the beginning of a long, difficult and costly learning process. Two or three years later, when in Zurich and going to similar meetings in rented castles and venues in Austria and Germany, I would remember this day trip into the wilderness of Mississippi. The only difference between the occasions were that the mountainside and countryside in Austria and Germany, were prettier. Although the wilderness of Mississippi was awesome in its own, untamed way. The result of these forays was usually the same; the characters and locations somewhat different, with different accents.

On the one hand, there has been an incredible amount of time and effort wasted on pursuits which could, in concept, easily rival the Holy Grail crusades. With the subsequent financial and personal losses those other crusades also entailed. The positive outcome has been an equally incredible trove of knowledge, travel, cultural understanding, and people met along the way. And perhaps a slightly better understanding of self; who and why.

Is one worth the other? I am not sure about the answer to this question. Perhaps, if I can put that knowledge and understanding to work on my own as well as others’ behalf, then the answer would be yes.

Time will tell.
Be Well … Be Back!!!

Final Notes:
·       Pray for those who are fighting an illness which may take them away from their loved ones… Every request is heard, and counts!!   
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